From Fear to Food: Understanding and Supporting ARFID
- Alexa Shank, MS, LPC, CEDS
- Feb 13
- 3 min read

When people think of eating disorders, they often think of conditions like Anorexia Nervosa, Bulimia, or Binge Eating Disorder. While these disorders are complex and involve more than just food, they typically include body image concerns as a key element of their presentation. However, this is not the case with a lesser-known eating disorder called ARFID. ARFID, or Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder, is often mistaken for picky eating. But in reality, it is a serious eating disorder that goes far beyond simple food preferences or aversions. While many of us may be familiar with a child who refuses certain foods or an adult who avoids specific textures, ARFID presents a set of challenges that are much more complex, with significant impacts on both physical and mental health.
So what exactly is ARFID?
ARFID is characterized by a person’s severely limited food intake and a strong avoidance of specific foods, textures, colors, or types of food. Unlike picky eating, which often improves over time, ARFID is a chronic condition that leads to nutritional deficiencies, weight loss, and a general disinterest in eating. Individuals with ARFID frequently experience heightened anxiety or fear around food, but their food choices are not driven by body image concerns. While many want to lead a normal life and recover from their eating disorder, their intense anxiety often stands in the way. A person with ARFID may have experienced a traumatic event related to food, such as choking or vomiting, which triggers overwhelming fear. Additionally, some individuals exhibit a lack of interest in food altogether, may not find eating enjoyable, or struggle to recognize hunger cues.
It’s important to note that not all picky eaters have ARFID. In fact, picky eating is a phase that many children go through, and it typically improves as they grow older. The distinction between ARFID and picky eating often lies in the severity and impact of the eating behaviors. Picky eaters generally have a narrow food range but still consume a balanced diet, even if they avoid certain foods or flavors. For example, a child might refuse vegetables but still get plenty of nutrition from fruits, grains, and proteins. They may eat a limited variety, but it’s usually sufficient to maintain growth and development. ARFID, on the other hand, often involves avoiding food to the point where the person experiences serious health consequences such as malnutrition, stunted growth, or vitamin deficiencies. While picky eating tends to be something children outgrow with time, ARFID can persist well into adulthood, limiting social interactions, and affecting overall quality of life.
Living with ARFID can be isolating and challenging, often due to widespread misunderstandings about the nature of their picky eating. Individuals with ARFID frequently experience feelings of shame, frustration, and confusion, and may be unfairly labeled as "difficult" or "fussy."
How is it treated?
Treatment for ARFID usually involves a comprehensive approach that combines psychotherapy, nutritional counseling, and exposure therapy. Psychotherapy, is often used to address the underlying anxiety and fear associated with food and work towards more effective coping. Through nutritional work and exposure therapy, new foods are gradually introduced in a controlled and supportive environment to help desensitize individuals to their food anxieties. The goal is to reduce the fear associated with specific textures, tastes, or smells, allowing the person to gradually expand their food choices. Exposure is typically done in small, manageable steps, starting with less intimidating foods and slowly progressing to more challenging ones. Over time, this process helps decrease anxiety and increase the person's tolerance to a wider range of foods, ultimately leading to a more varied and nutritious diet.
Understanding ARFID and its differences from picky eating can help reduce the stigma and ensure that those affected receive the care and compassion they need. If you suspect someone might have ARFID, don’t hesitate to reach out for help—early intervention can make a significant difference.
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